A child will often have enthusiasm for playing the piano when it’s a new and exciting endeavour. However, even the most dedicated learner sometimes reaches a point where he or she just does not want to practice.
Punishment and bribery simply do not work. Punishment creates a negative association with piano playing. While bribery may seem to work on a short term basis, in the long run it is ineffective. A child might practice for the immediate reward, but a bribe does not give them any appreciation for the piano playing itself. Fortunately, there are many great techniques a parent can use to motivate a child to play the piano.
An important foundation for motivating your child is choosing an instructor. The right instructor can impart enthusiasm for piano playing and make lessons enjoyable and engaging. This will go a long way toward a child’s desire to play and to practice.
There are several factors to keep in mind when structuring your child’s practice sessions. Make sure the session is fun and that the length is appropriate for your child’s attention span. A child will be much more likely to want to practice if the session isn’t a slog. Consistency is also important. Schedule sessions at the same time each day as part of a normal routine.
Set goals for your child that are attainable. Regular progress is encouraging for them. Explain to older children the value of being able to play the piano. Take your child to live performances to help them appreciate what can be accomplished when they persevere. If your child is so inclined, provide opportunities to perform either for family and friends, or possibly in recitals.
A vital element of motivation is praise. Be sure to sincerely praise your child’s efforts at practice and playing. Your recognition of your child’s efforts will help bolster their confidence and help motivate them to continue.
It’s helpful if your child is exposed to music in the home, especially if one or both parents play the piano. Playing piano with your child not only helps motivate them, but can also be an activity that brings you closer together as a family.
Perhaps the most important advice of all, as recommended by Martha Beth Lewis, PhD., is simply to be there with your child. If you want your child’s piano playing to be important to your child, it must be important to you, too.